Relationships of all kinds are like sand held in hand.Held loosely, with an open hand.. It remains intact. The minute you tighten your hands to hold it firmly, the sand flickers through your fingers. You may hold some part of it but maximum part would be spilled. A relationship should be like that.. given lots of freedom without any boundries or walls.. It should be set free. The measure of the sweetness of your relationships can be done by the measuring freedom you have allowed in it..You should trust the relationship you make, leave it free.. if its a true one it will live strongest but if it's lost like that sand, there is no point in brooding over because it was never yours..
ISHQ VISHQ....a movie casting Shahid Kapoor and Amrita Rao..In this movie "agar tumhara pyaar jaana chahe to usse jaane do, agar woh laut ke aaye tab hi woh tumhara hai.. varna woh kabhi tumhara tha hi nahi..." a dialouge said by Payal Mehra alias Amrita relates with whatever I mentioned above. It's not becoming filmy or something ...sometimes these films do teach us good...right?? I believe trust and freedom are two utmost important ingredients to make a good relationship.
SO SET YOURSELF AND YOUR RELATIONSHIP FREE.....!!!
( NOTE: a small recommendation , after reading this post please go and hear the title track of" U , ME , AUR HUM")
YEH ZINDAGI KA SABSE HASIN RANG HAI..
YEH JEENE KA SASBE PYAARA DHANG HAI...
YEH HAIN TO KHUSHIYAAN SANG HAIN..
YEH NAHI TO HAR PAL BERANG HAI...!!!!!
AGAR YEH KAANTE HAIN ,
TO INKI CHUBHAN BATATI HAI KI TUM AB BHI ZINDA HO..
AGAR YEH PHOOL HAIN,
TO INKI MAHAK BATATI HAI KI TUM AB BHI SAANS LENA JAANTE HO..
AGAR YEH ZEHER HAI ,
TO ISKA ASAR BATATA HAI KI TUMHARI RAGON MEIN AB BHI RAWAANI HAI..
AUR KYA KAHOON ... ISKE BINA ADHOORI HAR KISI KI ZINDAGAANI HAI..!!!
Memories they say lives on...With every morning passing by millions of honey like dew drops evaporate into oblivion; there identities lost forever. But still in the short span of time they manage to lend to the nature the freshness, the morning bath and the incarnation it is--day after day..Few months ago, whenever I sat alone ... thought about life..It seemed to be so desolate , something which was eating me inside out, a barren land of death,bathed in blazing,pitiless sunlight,a landscape painted by a sadistic artist...(ALL BCOZ I LEFT MA FRNS, MOM ,DAD,BRO)
"LIKE AS THE WAVES MAKE TOWARDS THE PEBBLED SHORE;
SO DO OUR MINUTES TOWARDS THEIR END....
EACH CHANGING PLACE WITH THAT WHICH GOES BEFORE;
IN SEQUEL TO IT ALL FORWARDS DO CONTEND....!!!!!
When to the sessions of sweet silent thought ...I koyal summon up remembrance of things past..to commence once again with the same unbeaten zeal,hearty and persistent effort...
"PACK CLOUDS AWAY AND WELCOME THE DAY..
WITH NIGHTS WE BANISH SORROW..!!
SWEET AIR BLOW SOFT;MOUNT LARKS ALOFT..
TO GIVE MY FRIENDSHIP A GOOD MORROW...!!!"
In the downhill of my life...when I knew I was declining..I found the most beautiful hearts to stand by me..to give me every possible happiness ..i cud have got ever......!!!!!
But after all these, one thing this tender heart is haunted by is time. How long these soothing moments would continue... again a seperation..!! Then again the same zeal...same effort to continue..!! Thinking all these I grew n today I stand as a matured KOYAL...a gal who believes that these struggles r something which prove that u r still living, dat u r still ready to face the world, u r still ready to outburst in the nights, n to overshadow in the sun....A gal who knows seperations are mandatory part of life.. afterall it was these seperations which made us accept ..every relationship was important in some or the other way...some made us to accept hard truths,some took us to the world of blaze, some to extreme feelings of being a princess.. and some to the feeling of being a forlorn ....and wat not...????So I owe every person who came in my life..contributed to it, added a bit to the growth of my heart...
THANK U...I PAY MY SINCERE GRATITUDE TO ALL ....!!!!!